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EPISODE 10 · January 5, 2021 · 59m

How to Have Your Best Year: Choosing Goals and Quality Questions with Justin Gary

Award-winning game designer, author, and speaker Justin Gary, returns to discuss goal setting, plans for 2021, and our new project together, Quality Questions.

Episode notes

In this episode we discuss:

  • Reviewing 2020 and setting goals for 2021
  • What do you do with goals you set for 2020 but couldn't accomplish?
  • How Justin conducts past year reviews (and why it takes him a lot less time than it used to)
  • "Aggressive but achievable" goals
  • What it means and what to do if you have a goal that just doesn't get done
  • Why you should beware of chasing "Laser pointer goals"
  • How to make difficult things like going to the gym more fun. 
  • The lesson from reading Neil Strauss's interviews with hundreds of rock stars and other celebrities, and how it changes the goals you should set. 
  • “Before enlightenment; chop wood, carry water. After enlightenment; chop wood, carry water.” — Zen Kōan
  • Unveiling your next goal or the next "layer of your karma"
  • Combatting "shiny object syndrome"
  • Justin's superpower "Rule of 3" for goal setting 
  • My "master goal" that makes all of my other goals possible
  • How to build an audience. 
  • My goals for 2021 - Creating value for others and creating consistently
  • How to use Leading indicators instead of Lagging indicators when setting goals
  • Replacing SMART goals with a PACT
  • Designing your ideal day
  • How to actually get the benefit from self improvement books and lectures
  • A Great Question Can Change Your Life - Get One in Your Inbox Every Day
  • Quality Questions (https://qualityquestions.co/)
  • Closing the year in gratitude

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